When Can You Romance Astarion?
Direct Answer
You can romance Astarion after completing the Rescuing the Druid Halsin and Save the Refugees side quests, and taking a long rest. This will trigger a celebration at your campsite, where you can make choices that will lead to a romantic relationship with Astarion.
Romance Triggers
There are three triggers that can initiate the romance with Astarion:
- Talking to the drow in Moonrise: This will give you a conversation option that can lead to a romantic path.
- Completing Astarion’s Act II personal quest: This will unlock a romantic scene with Astarion.
- Having very high approval with him by some point in Act II: If your approval rating with Astarion is high enough, you will be able to continue the romance at the tiefling party later on.
Approval Requirements
To ensure that you can romance Astarion, you need to have fair approval with him. This can be achieved by making the right choices during conversations and quests. You can also earn more approval by killing a certain hunter and giving him a certain book.
Romance Complexities
Romancing Astarion is a complex process that requires deceit and trickery. You will need to make choices that may not align with your moral compass, but will lead to a romantic relationship with Astarion. Be prepared for a push-pull dynamic, where Astarion can be pleased or displeased by your choices.
Consequences of Romance
Romancing Astarion will have consequences on your relationships with other party members. Some companions may be displeased with your decision, while others may be pleased. Be prepared for a complex web of relationships and consequences.
Table of Companion Options
Here is a table of all the companions you can romance in Baldur’s Gate 3:
| Companion | Requirements |
|---|---|
| Shadowheart | |
| Astarion | Complete Rescuing the Druid Halsin and Save the Refugees side quests, and take a long rest. |
| Wyll | |
| Lae’zel | |
| Gale | |
| Karlach | |
| Halsin | |
| Minthara |
What Happens if You Drive a Stake Through Astarion’s Heart?
If you choose to drive a stake through Astarion’s heart, it will permanently kill him, and you will not be able to resurrect him. This will conclude the "The Pale Elf" questline.
Should You Tell Gandrel About Astarion?
Giving Gandrel directions to your camp will displease several of your companions, who worry that you will give up on them easily if they find themselves in a similar plight. Giving up Astarion here will remove him permanently from your party, concluding the "The Pale Elf" questline.
Conclusion
Romancing Astarion is a complex and nuanced process that requires careful choices and attention to relationships. By following these guidelines, you can ensure that you are prepared for the romance and its consequences. Remember to be prepared for a push-pull dynamic, and to consider the consequences of your choices on your relationships with other party members.