29 January, 2020
Start Potty Training Review
There are hundreds of methods of toilet training, but the only one that’s gonna work for your child.
It’s a tough gig to figure out which one because you’ve probably never done it before. And now, the possibilities are as abundant as diapers and wipes.
Start Potty Training Review
Maybe you’re bold enough to try newborn toilet training, where elimination communication is a trending idea. Are you looking for a plan or a routine to follow?
Maybe you just need a way to make your words count in the eyes of your little rebel.
Sound, logical, universal parenting strategies are always coming from the experts- but who’s an expert?
There isn’t a first-time parent out there who can say they know what they’re doing- because finding out ourselves is what makes us parents!
Making the most of this moment may not be your ultimate concern right now, but it will certainly be one of those moments you always recount throughout your child’s life.
When to start potty training for babies?
However difficult toilet training is, or is imagined in your mind, you’ll still have to go through with it.
I can promise though, you’ll eventually be on the other side of it, puffing out your mantel at the incredible job you’ve just done!
So first things first:
What’s your plan? There is plenty of help with toilet training available anywhere on the web, but learning about the importance of the plan is usually absent from most programs.
Get your supplies, and get it into your child’s head that this is the day you become a big kid. Prepare extra sheets, and get plenty of fiber: in all honesty, the success of this day starts with a good plan.
Be consistent! Never let down, and showing the importance of the day will translate to your child’s psychology. Delayed toilet training comes from giving into the ease of diapers. Potty training regression is a symptom of in-consistency!
What if you were knowledgeable about some controversial methods of toilet training? Would you believe that it may be EASIER to potty train an infant?
Elimination communication is the careful, and timely study of your infant’s cue’s and reactions to the different phenomena they experience- honing in on the timing of your baby’s potty time! It can be done.
But my favorite of all is the good old, tough-love approach. The idea of being right there for our children’s needs, but unavailable to their want’s until it is known that it’s time for business.
It may be hard to do for some parents, but the standard you set up now will last in the minds of our kids forever- it’s not that hard to imagine our kids as teenagers, making decisions based on their own personal integrity; integrity that they did or did not learn from their parents, starting possibly all the way back to the days of potty training!
All-in-all, you may be here to find a three-day toilet training program, or to finish your potty training in one week.
Maybe you’ll end up finding a way to bypass all the diaper-centric methods, and get down to it by the first month of the child’s existence. Any and all of these can give you help with toilet training.
The problem with Potty Training…
… is that it SUCKS!
If your child has gone through potty training regression:
Then you undoubtedly know what REAL frustration is. All the theories, and all the programs and “expert advice” usually come from people who are telling you what worked for them.
Potty training pitfalls come in all forms- from changing schools, or changing daycare to outright stress in the child (maybe divorce, or parents working outside the home).
Too many times a child will just overlook the importance of what you both are trying to accomplish because a parent is too stressed out and negative to keep the endeavor a happy affair.
But we mustn’t forget who the student is. Our children don’t know what they haven’t been taught. Sounds pretty fundamental, even obvious- right?
It is our guidance these little people depend on. If you think about it, going to the bathroom to dispose of our waste is an act only humans perform. It’s basically the one thing we as a species are trained to do.
Is there a difference in betwixt training and teaching?
We’re taught to have manners, or why we put a hat and gloves on in the winter. We’re taught to share, or not to hit, and why.
But potty training is specific: you go to one room that’s essentially in every house or building you’d ever been in and do one specific thing.
It is an operation that we must be trained to perform. Curious thought, eh?
So if this procedure, that even WE do as adults and parents, is causing you to get mad and angry at your kids for not understanding, just remember:
They don’t realize the nature of this act called “putting your poop, and pee ONLY in this big white bowl”. It requires the guidance of a trained professional.
Knowing when to start potty training is a guessing game. You know when you know. I like Carol Clines ‘Start Potty Training’ program; it comes with really good parent psychology to use for the child’s psychology. This is important, especially for the first time potty trainers, and even more especially for the stressed out ones!
Making the most of this experience is probably not the first thing you’re thinking of. Getting done with it, and getting rid of diapers is most likely the golden horizon in your mind, and the only goal you have at this point.
But I would offer this, (because I’ve been through potty training regression with my daughter, and I seemingly have a new niece or nephew every summer who needs potty training guidance):
This is the first moment in your relationship that you really find out how much you need each other. Your children need guidance, and you need the legacy.
What I mean is this; what happens during potty training stay’s in the child’s sub-conscious forever. You have to realize that your child will judge, from this episode, whether or not you can handle a frustrating task without falling apart on them.
Kids have to learn to use the potty, and if you’re constantly disappointed and angry at them before they do, then you may make the act of learning more of a chore, rather than the necessity it’ll be for the rest of your life!
I know it sound’s silly, and you may not get it right now, but these are the best days of your lives. Children grow-up and your bond grow stronger from here.
Your kids will look to you for guidance through-out the rest of your life, because you taught, and trained them the first thing’s they ever knew.
We got NO time for potty training regression!
Progress baby, that’s what humanity desires- it’s what we fix our goals and ideas too. So in light of an emergency, let’s make this quick!
Three-day potty training is not a myth.
If you’re well past this frame of time, then listen up. This is not a result of bad parenting; it results from bad teaching.
The great part about learning (and thus, passing it on to your child), is that you can learn to get better at potty training.
If your frustrated, feeling inadequate and impatient with the way you’re explaining the process, and in turn getting mad and yelling at the innocent perpetrator- then the fix is nothing more then getting a good, clear new plan.
I haven’t found a better program than the Start Potty Training system by Carol Cline. Click on the link for more info.
Don’t feel bad, we all eventually learn to do the dirty business in the right place, (hopefully, you’re not having many accidents in your adult life).
We’re all different, so the way we learn is certainly going to be different. And let me tell you, what we learn has all the effect on what we teach.
I remember when I needed help with toilet training my daughter, and all the grandmas in our life had something different to offer- which made it a little confusing.
I don’t remember any of my grandmas offering a way to do it in 3 days. Nor did I have ANY clue about the proper diet- doesn’t it make sense to feed kids a high fiber diet like apples, and oatmeal, and broccoli- (if you can manage to get kids eating a lot of broccoli, then you’re a hero in my book).
What I got most from my parent’s and grandparent’s were little bits of info, here and there to apply to my own scheme of fast toilet training.
When taking all that in, and figuring out a way to teach this on the fly, it seems natural now that I was going to struggle.
I was a single father working full time during the day, and chasing my dreams at night- all while devoting my utmost attention and concentration on being the best father I could be.
Plus, I had to compete with whatever plan my daughter’s mother had for her, which can undo the progress either of us might have been making. This is a natural recipe for stress!
All the books, and all the articles scattered across every library, and every website amounts to a junior semester at your local community college. We just don’t have time for that.
You can’t start potty training without a concentrated program. A start potty training in 3 days plan means you HAVE to devote 3 straight days to a well prepared, and thought-out system.
You can’t offer little bit’s of info to your kids in an un-organized way and hope they take the system seriously.
What about the food?
If you don’t feed them the right kinds of food that will make going to the bathroom easier, then you don’t have a responsible plan.
What about potty training while sleeping?
This was one of the most overlooked part’s of the whole potty training experience for me. You definitely need a game plan for the overnight shift.
What about overall psychological readiness, not just for you but for baby too?
From top to bottom, Carol Cline’s ‘Start Potty Training’ program combined every detail about getting this thing DONE. After reading the first 2-3 pages, I realized that I never prepared my daughter and myself with a mapped-out plan for a real fast toilet training program; one that would tackle all the important pieces by the end of the 3rd day.
And it’s not some secret formula that only THIS woman knows, or took her to the top of mt. Everest to learn- it’s tough love, it’s understanding the psychology of both you and your child, and it’s real potty training for those who want to do it right.
If you’ve had an experience like mine, or your child is showing signs of potty training regression, then it makes sense that you’ve landed on this page. No doubt your child will eventually learn how to do the deed in the right place- you did right?
But check out the Start Potty Training system by Carol Cline, it might be the end of diapers and accident’s as you know it!
Thoughts and ideas about parenting, after reading Carol Cline
And after seeing Carol Cline’s video of the Start Potty Training product I wondered how potty training, and ultimately Parenting is administered across all walks of life.
There are plenty of methods and philosophy’s to raising children, that after reading Carol’s ebook I found myself defining my own.
Parenting is hard; I always remember the quote that “parenting is the hardest job in the world, and it only employs amateurs.” My mother said to me when I told she was going to be a grandma, that if we all waited until we were ready to have kids, nobody would have any!
Fast toilet training especially, can really test the patience of new parents.
Of course, once you get to potty training your 2nd, 3rd, 4th child you become an expert, kinda.
I say ‘kinda’ because there will always be moments you wished you could’ve done differently, and maybe you’ll learn things well after not needing them any longer. That’s the game, folks- forever learning!
Diapers suck, but I could always handle them. It wasn’t the changing of diapers that stressed me out, it was the never-ending concentration on my child’s every move.
I remember coming to the point where I COULD NOT WAIT for my daughter to handle potty time on her own. Everyone though told me not to waste the first precious years on trying to get quickly past them.
Soon enough she’ll be off, discovering the world on her own and not having time to cuddle into my warm loving arms, and thinking she doesn’t need my help anymore.
Of course, she’ll need me her whole life, and she’ll seek me out for the very guidance I provided in moments like… you guessed it… Potty Training.
Tough-love, to me, is an essential part of parenting.
We never want to get mad at our children, but the lack of space and magnified attention paid to the development of our kids is where real trial and error happens; it’s also exactly where our bonds are formed.
With ‘Start Potty Training’ you’ll be expertly guided through one of the most memorable moments in the life of your children, with plenty of lessons for the years to come.
Night time toilet training
Toilet training at night is probably the hardest part of the whole game. But….
There’s an art, and science to night time toilet training; mastering the process can be done in one try- with the right plan!
I’m warning you now, you might start to think you have superpowers. And in a way, fast toilet training IS a superpower, considering the task your finishing in a single bound.
But to land on your feet in that one super-bound, will take a superhuman effort during night time, (well, not really, but don’t let that stop you from feeling super!).
Night time toilet training in 5 steps:
- Cut out the drinks a couple of hours before bed- almost like a dis-incentive. Don’t keep drinks from your child if they’re thirsty, but the fewer drinks they have the less they’re going to need to expel it.
- Take your child to the bathroom at least twice before actually going to bed. Night time toilet training requires every advantage you can give yourself, and getting out all the pee before the long night is as sure-fire as tying your shoes to keep them on!
- If you hear them rustling around in their beds, call out in a sleepy voice that they need to let you know if they have to go pee. This put’s the idea in their head that they need to be aware of their bodies.
- After a long day of constantly asking, ” do you have to go potty?” it should be rather automatic come night fall. Sleep time is an extended period with which your child would usually have to hold it. By waking them up an hour or so into their sleep, and letting them know it’s okay to get out of bed to go potty, you’re giving them the initiative to recognize their own potty cues.
- Early in the morning, waking them up an hour before it’s time makes sure your child isn’t just laying in bed. A lot of accidents happen when your child is already awake, and they don’t make the connection to get up and go- well, not until you train them to do so!
While night time toilet training is just one part of the whole program,
it’s the best time to start getting those subconscious cues into their heads about the proper way to handle potty time.
The point is, these kinds of messages are the key to making a routine out of it. Fast toilet training is done correctly and thoroughly will discourage potty training regression.
In the event of an accident, just keep your cool. Remember this is new to your child, and they need your guidance to accomplish a good routine. Accidents are going to happen, and if you’ve prepared well enough, you should be ready to handle anything!