How High Does Astarion’s Approval Have to Be to Romance Him?
Romancing Astarion, the charming and cunning tiefling, is a thrilling experience in Baldur’s Gate 3. However, to unlock his romantic options, you’ll need to build a strong relationship with him. But how high does his approval have to be to romance him? In this article, we’ll delve into the intricacies of Astarion’s approval and provide you with a comprehensive guide on how to win his heart.
Fair is Good Enough
According to various sources, "fair" is good enough to start the romance with Astarion at the tiefling party later on, provided you make the right choices at the party itself. This means you don’t need to worry about achieving a high approval rating immediately. Instead, focus on building a rapport with Astarion through your interactions and choices, and you’ll be on your way to romance.
Approval Points
Here’s a breakdown of how Astarion’s approval works:
| Choice | Approval Point |
|---|---|
| Display of Power and Cruelty | +1 |
| Snarkiness and Mocking | +1 |
| Gaining Access to Areas/Information by Deceiving Others | +1 |
| Other Choices (e.g., being merciful, showing empathy) | -1 |
Keep in mind that these points are not cumulative, meaning you won’t earn multiple points for a single choice. However, consistently making choices that align with Astarion’s preferences will increase your approval rating over time.
Romancing Astarion in Act 1
To romance Astarion in Act 1, you must have finished his companion quest, which involves taking down his master Cazador. After completing this quest, you’ll have the opportunity to romance him.
Romancing Astarion in Act 3
In Act 3, you’ll have the chance to romance Astarion again. However, this time, you must persuade him not to perform the ritual, or you’ll help him and receive a "bitter" ending. Your character will become "offended" by default, which can be resolved by making different choices.
What Astarion Approves of
Astarion is inspired by displays of power and cruelty, snarkiness and mocking, and gaining access to areas/information by deceiving others. He is less approving of merciful and empathetic choices. Here are some specific examples of choices that will increase your approval rating:
- Cruelty: Ask Astarion to mock someone, or suggest cruel punishments for those who wronged you.
- Snarkiness: Respond to Astarion’s witty remarks with sarcasm or humor.
- Deception: Gain access to areas or information by deceiving others, such as lying or manipulating those around you.
Avoiding Disapproval
While it’s essential to understand what Astarion approves of, it’s equally important to avoid disapproval. Here are some examples of choices that will decrease your approval rating:
- Mercy: Show mercy to those who have wronged you, or offer forgiveness to those who don’t deserve it.
- Empathy: Respond to Astarion’s cruel remarks with empathy or understanding.
- Naivety: Make decisions based on naivety or ignorance, rather than cunning and deception.
Conclusion
Romancing Astarion requires a delicate balance of approval and disapproval. By understanding what he approves of and avoiding disapproval, you can build a strong relationship with him and unlock his romantic options. Remember, "fair" is good enough to start the romance, and consistently making choices that align with Astarion’s preferences will increase your approval rating over time. With patience and persistence, you’ll be on your way to winning Astarion’s heart.